Quick update re: settlement, dd, etc ..

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Quick update re: settlement, dd, etc ..
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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 3:19am

Meeting is next Thurs in STBX's attys office.

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 8:51am

OK, is it wrong of me to chuckle about the fact that your STBX owes $700.00 to thr IRS because he was an uncooperative dolt? OK, maybe it is, but I still think it's funny!


I think the most difficult part about divorce is when our children feel sad or upset. Even though we KNOW this choice is best in the long run, it's still painful and brings out A LOT of feelings of guilt on our end. But this phase will pass for Avery, too. All in all, I think she's really dealing with the situation very well.


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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 11:13am

Well, I'm sure from Averey's perspective, she knows that her daddy was much more stable and had fewer episodes of his emotional imbalance when he was living with you.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 11:27am

Thanks. Speaking of using drawing for expression, wait till you see THIS! lol

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Fri, 04-14-2006 - 11:37am

I love the way she's accented her cheeks with the circles.... do you think that she really recognizes that her cute little cheeks pucker up like that when she's really fuming.... (and really happy, too).


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Sat, 04-15-2006 - 9:41am

Your exhusband is so unstable its very scary, it scares me when I read updates about him. Anyhow, I have to admit I got a little chuckle reading he had to pay the IRS. Oh well, too sad for him, he's divorcing you he doesn't get the benefit of filing his taxes with you. Too bad so sad...my small violin plays for him.

I really hope you are able to settle this soon, I think the laws in RI are ridiculous pertaining to the fact that you have to pay all the insurance for him still yet he's not giving you child support, that's wrong and if he's dragging this out purposefully than stalling tactics should be noticed by the courts.

Is your daughter in counseling??? If not I think it should be the logical step for her, she's having a hard time with this and rightfully so and as unstable as your husband is I have a feeling he says inappropriate things to her, you seem to be the "bad guy" in this scenario unfortunately but I think you are doing the best you can with her, an impartial counselor would really help her with her emotions.