XH holiday and no show - no call BUT
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| Sun, 04-16-2006 - 5:53pm |
he was in town with his GF and their kid. It was my weekend and HIS holiday but he never called or anything. I even thought that if he called our DD might tell him "are you coming to get me?" But he didn't. He would get her from 9-6 (NOT THAT I AM COMPLAINING BECAUSE I WANT HER 24HR/DAY/7 DAYS WEEK/365 DAYS A YR). But I am NOT reminding him. I did that last year and he was oblivious to it. Then we are coming back from our Easter today and wham right across from us at the stop light is her dad and his GF in her car because his was repo'd. REgardless even though he is a dumbACE he still could of called and said "Happy Easter" right?
My DD saw him and said "Is that my dad." My niece (24yr) said "yes honey it was." She said "wonder if he saw me." I hate him.
He had up until 9:30 to come and get her today. I had her up and ready by 9 a.m. for him just in case. She didn't care left or right if he came. But he was the one just a couple weeks ago complaining that he hadn't seen her for 3 weeks (it just happended that I got her for spring break and it landed for me to have her 3 weekends in a row) but I had offered him one of the weekends so he would of had her 2 weekends straight and me 2 weekends straight but he said no becasue made up soem excuse because he was partying with his sisters. Whatever I wasn't complaining until he told me I was keeping her from him. So then after I had her for 3 weekends his weekend was coming up and she didn't have school on th and fri and I let him come get her that Weds night and keep her until Sunday. Didn't have too but I wanted her to see her dad. But still today what a zero total negative zero!!!!
I get Memorial Day this year for my holiday and I am NOT switching. Why do I have too just because he forgets. He was in town today (he lives an hour away) even if he would of called and said I will be there at 1 to pick her up I would of let her go because at least he knew it was his day. GRRRR sometimes I just wonder what IF...he just went away. But then I would have to pick up the pieces because he wouldn't with our DD. Wouldn't be the first time he hurt her feelings.
Just venting thanks!

Mine is the same - but worse.
He CAN have every otehr weekend Fri nite thru Mon AM.
My EX can barely keep up with every other weekend and Tuesday evenings!... and the only reason that he can do that is because I make him (and his entire family) a calendar each Christmas--from the kids--that includes pictures from the previous year of them.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~