Is this normal?
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| Mon, 04-09-2007 - 11:37am |
I'm new to these boards, but I was hoping for some feeback.
My husband and I have been separated for 2 months now (married 12 years). We are going through with the divorce. I wanted it and I was the one that made the first move. There was no infidelity, abuse, etc... involved with our decision. It just came down to two different lifestyles that didn't mesh and we are on very amicable terms during this separation.
I don't regret my decision. I know it's the best for me and I do feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders. I don't want to try to reconcile either because we split up 5 years ago and reconciled and ended up in the same spot again. So I have come to the realisation that neither he nor I am capable of making the change to make this work. But herein lies my question.... he told me he met someone. Even though, I don't want him back or want to try to salvage the marriage, I'm stunned by how much him having met someone upsets me. Is this normal for me to feel this way even though I was the one that wanted out?
Thanks!

HI there.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~