i hate being so needy

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Registered: 02-23-2006
i hate being so needy
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Mon, 04-16-2007 - 10:23am

i posted this question on eas, but i didn't get the response i was looking for, because noone was in a similar situation that i am in. so, i am posting it here.

there are many reasons for divorce. mine is truly because my stbx is an alcoholic. during the time i was trying to decide to leave or stay my m, i had an a with a mm. i found it much easier to end my m than ending my a. so my question to those of you who have been the ws who ended a m, did you find it more diffult to end your a and not your m??

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 4:48pm
It's difficult to end something, even when you know it's wrong, when you're getting something that you need from it!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~