Bah-humbug....I think

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Registered: 03-27-2007
Bah-humbug....I think
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Sun, 12-23-2007 - 8:30pm

Hi everyone, I have not posted in

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Registered: 07-07-2007
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 10:27pm

Cdn,

You are not alone. I can completely relate to what you are saying. This is the first Christmas in nearly a decade that I have not spent with my husband, and it's devastating. I am so lonely today, and I can only assume I'll be even more lonely two days from now.

Everything you're feeling is normal. My therapist says that I can expect similar thoughts and emotions for the next 3 to 5 years--YIKES! I think the holidays just magnify everything.

Have you looked at where YOUR life may be a year from now? Maybe you'll be looking back at this year, wishing you knew all the great things that were ahead of you.

I am sending all my best to you.

M

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 4:13pm

What goes around does come around....


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-24-2007 - 6:31pm

Hey, I feel for you.