XH contact this morning .....
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XH contact this morning .....
| Mon, 12-24-2007 - 10:45am |
I am still amazed. Why?
Ave asked to call him to say Merry Xmas eve. I would prefer she do it now, whiel I am here with her, as opposed to tonite when she is with her cousins. He has NOT called her in 4 weeks, except for twice, & that was a few weeks ago. The only time they have spoken in the past 2 weeks is once, when she called him. & then again today.
I am still amazed. Why?
Ave asked to call him to say Merry Xmas eve. I would prefer she do it now, while I am here with her, as opposed to tonite when she is with her cousins b/c


I'm sorry to hear these things, its painful to watch.
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Oh Rebecca...
I'm not at all surprised, so I'm right there with you... but I am incredibly sad right now, thinking of poor little Ave describing the glass door being shut... it eeriely reminded me of the whole jail visitation though the glass talking on the phonething... poor sweet Ave... she deserves so much better than this...
Your xh never ceases to amaze me... I mean, I should lower all expectations and expect only the unexpected, but somehow I just can't... Kudos for you for staying strong and I'm so glad that you have the psych's back up here...
I hope the psych and/or your attorney was bcc'ed on that email as well and that you are documenting all of this attempted contact, which I know you are... and the Christmas gift, seriously?
I am always amazed Rebecca.... he just keeps on repeating the same patterns... so sad... and even "worse" is that Ave has already "learned" that she's willing to compromise herself to see him.... even though he's not doing anything toward being remotely positive for her.
Hugs to you and Ave.... hope you both have a wonderful Christmas.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~