I'm Scared but Ready.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2006
I'm Scared but Ready.....
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Wed, 01-02-2008 - 8:14pm

I have been married for 12 years and have 3 kids.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-12-2003
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 9:08pm

Man, we have similar situations!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 12:21am

Oh... but you ARE being "beat".... emotionally!


My EX never did make that appointment for individual counseling either... and really, it's not about whether you "love" him or not, it's about what's working in the marriage... and what's not.


I ended up telling my then-husband that it just wasn't fair to him to be married to me because I couldn't be the wife that he needed or wanted.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-01-2006
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 7:19pm

Hi - I am in a similar situation - married 12 years; 3 wonderful kids and think I might be ready to call it quits.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2003
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 9:05am

Okay, I've been with my husband for 10 years, married for 5.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-21-2006
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 9:29pm
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