You won't believe this - WWYD?

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Registered: 10-12-2006
You won't believe this - WWYD?
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Tue, 01-08-2008 - 1:55pm

So my now official EX (as of 12/19) came home for x-mas to visit with our child.

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 3:09pm

Jenn,


It's too late for your Ex to contest the divorce agreement. The moment he agreed (and you) and the judge signed it, it was done. There's little recourse to go back and redo it now, especially since his reasons would fall under the category of revenge. If he wanted different terms, then he should have asked for them before they were final. Let him find this out though and let a lawyer take his money from him.


I think your Ex is just suffering from "buyers remorse" i.e. he didn't regret the divorce until it happened or he broke up with his girlfriend and figures you're an easy "go to" girl for him to fall back on.


I wouldn't taunt him again about going to court but its not very likely he can do anything about the settlement now.


Good luck to you!

CL-Wisdomtooth2020


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They're = contraction of "they are"; They're going to the store.

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 6:02pm
No way would a judge recant on the divorce settlement now.... however... the child support issue might fly, so you may have a case for the "I told him I wanted to be fair, but if he's going to drag me through hell all the time, maybe we should set up support"... and truly, it's not about you needing any of his cents or not, it's about HIS being responsible and providing opportunities for your child that are afforded by BOTH parents.

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 11-25-2003
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:46am

Its sounds like your Ex is trying to connect with you.