How I spent my day with out the kids

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Registered: 05-05-2005
How I spent my day with out the kids
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Sat, 01-12-2008 - 6:05pm

First thanks for the advice about the kids going to their dads. Yes they will be seeing him 1st 3rd and 5th weekend. He asked for them this weekend since he did not know he had them last. I guess I need to start making plans to do things.


So today I set out to buy groceries but walmart was packed and I was bummed. I ended up going looking (shopping without buying). One store was having a 75% off panties and bras. So I spent two hours picking out sexy panties and bra sets. I have no idea when I will get use out of these but it made me feel great. I have not pick out sexy clothes in years. Maybe I will just wear them under my daily clothes to feel good. I think I might even go next weekend and get a tattoo. Thanks for everything.

 

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Registered: 11-22-2001
Sat, 01-12-2008 - 7:37pm

A tattoo huh?? I did that 6 months after my now ex left. My kids were at my moms and I got a tattoo. A picture the boys had drawn me (a simple 5 petal red flower (x 2) with green stem and 1 leaf). I LOVE my tattoo and dont regret it for a second. It marked when I became me again (it's the only tattoo i have).


If you do this, just make sure you pick something you can live with forever. Something you'd be proud of but also (I recommend) putting it some place that can be easily covered if need be. Mine is on my ankle. If I wear pantyhose you cant see it (unless you're really looking or really close up)......


Glad you did something for you today. It will get easier for you as time goes on. Keep pampering yourself!!!


Deb

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