IAM OUT and he isn't..
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IAM OUT and he isn't..
| Sun, 01-27-2008 - 10:33pm |
Well I've been married for about 2 years and we have an 19month old son. I got married when I was 17 and he was 20 and it's been a nightmare.

Hello,
I just wanted to let you know that you are doing the right thing for both you and your son. I separated from my ex husband a year and a half ago. We were married for four years and together for a total of six. I did everything that you said you had done. I was in school full-time, raising our daughter, working, cooking and cleaning! You name it, I did it! I to told him that he needed to get his act together or I was out. Time and time again, he hurt me until finally I decided to follow through on my threat! Funny how men begin to realize what they had once its gone. All I can offer you, IS KEEP DOING WHAT U'R DOING!!!! Don't feel bad for him, he certainly didn't feel bad for you while the two of you were together. Remain respectful of course, after all you do share a child. Put your son first in everything you do. Even if the father does not! You will come out the winner in the end! U'r child will respect and love u for all u've done!
Please go look at the posts over on the Recognizing and Dealing with Domestic Abuse board.
I think you are doing the right thing.