I can't stop stalking him!!!! HELP!
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I can't stop stalking him!!!! HELP!
| Tue, 05-13-2008 - 7:47am |
I have only been separated for a little over a week.
| Tue, 05-13-2008 - 7:47am |
I have only been separated for a little over a week.
Dear Tori,
I'm sorry you are having such a rough time. Can you ask him to change his passwords? I can only imagine how tempting it is to constantly check his phone account, emails, whatever. Just say "Hey, I was thinking since we are separated, we should change all of our passwords since we know each other's." Unfortunately, if you're at work and your work doesn't have the blocking software, it will be too easy to do. If you have a lot of down time at work, and are allowed to do personal things on the computer, then allot yourself that time (5 minutes or whatever) to play a really fun game or maybe check some news or celebrity gossip instead of researching your ex's info.
And, get out and do something away from work and the computer. Go somewhere there are no computers, phones, a place where you will never see your ex. Maybe a park. Do you have a dog? Volunteer somewhere. This is an opportunity for you to start over. Maybe in doing so you will be happier with yourself and truly not care what he is doing. good luck.
hey tori.
I am sorry for what you are going through.
Hi tori,
You might want to take a look at the Love Addicts / Codependants message board.
Well today was a little tough because I had to see him this morning to drop off DD.