worried that DH will never leave

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Registered: 11-28-1999
worried that DH will never leave
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Tue, 05-13-2008 - 11:46am

I am starting to get these negative thoughts that DH will never get out of the house.

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 4:44pm
Hey
You have to be firm with this one musiclover12. Sounds like he is manipulating you. I was married to a big-time spender who could never have just "one" of anything and never settled for anything but the "best". You don't need to take care of his bills for him. It isn't your problem to figure out a place to live, it is his. Sorry to sound harsh, but someone gave me this advice months ago, and I have abided by it since. He needs to work this out, and do this, himself. You have probably been bailing him out of everything in your relationship (been there done that), so I understand your need to "fix" it. Try to be strong, and realize you are NOT alone :)
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 05-13-2008 - 5:02pm
I guess I feel that I'm walking a tightrope right now.