Confused???

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Registered: 05-14-2008
Confused???
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Wed, 05-14-2008 - 2:28pm

Hi, I’ve been reading posts here for a few weeks, but I’m feeling totally confused today so I thought I would finally post myself.


H and I have been married for 7 years, together 10, two kids, and have been separated for a month now. I’ll try to keep a very long story as short as possible....Like all couples we have been having ups and downs for most of our marriage. A couple of years ago we had a very bad year ~ one where tragic things happen, you get through them and hopefully move on together. We have been growing further apart since then, tried MC a few times and IC as well, and now here we are.


H and I have been getting along well for a few days and I’m feeling hopeful that we will eventually be able to work things out. The other night he was with the kids. We were chatting when I got home and we were talking about things that are coming up, so I grabbed the calendar and started writing things down. He got visibly upset and said he was leaving.


Like I said, we have been getting along well, so, I called him later to see if he was okay, left a message. Much later he calls back, very argumentative,

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: lost_lonely
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 4:40pm

Last night I overheard my 12 yr old son having a conv. w/ his GF.

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Registered: 05-14-2008
In reply to: lost_lonely
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 8:24am

Thanks for taking the time to reply to my post.


I agree that it was very immature behavior and next time I won't get drawn into such a conversation.