Please help

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2003
Please help
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Wed, 05-14-2008 - 5:34pm

My husband left 2 months ago, claiming he no longer loved me. I was a mess for the

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
In reply to: shukat
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 6:36pm

I was 4 yrs post out of it, after 26 yrs together, 30 knowing each other.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2006
In reply to: shukat
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 7:52pm

I know how you feel.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2008
In reply to: shukat
Wed, 05-14-2008 - 7:55pm
If he was your best friend, he wouldn't be doing this to you. As far as keeping it together for your 19-year old daughter...they know more than you think. It's ok to have a meltdown in front of them. You won't be able to get over 30 + years in 2 months for sure. I'm only at 10 months trying to get over 25+ years. I do know that it is ok to have a meltdown, and this is a great forum to do your meltdowns in! There are so many great sources of support, and the two women who oversee the forum always respond to our questions/needs. (and they have amazing insight!!! much more experience than the rest of us have just going through a separation/divorce) Keep your head held high and your spirit will follow!!