I'm new here, story not long

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2006
I'm new here, story not long
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Wed, 05-14-2008 - 10:27pm

Don't know what I should call him........I'm am getting a divorce. I didn't want it. He cheated and is in the military. I am sooo mad. Then I sooo want him back. I just want to talk to other women who have to deal with this.


I'm 25 he is 28 no kids just a house. Been married for 5 years and together for 8. He said he just didn't love me anymore. Another woman showed him he could be happier.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2006
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 1:24am
I'm sorry you're going through this. Sounds like you're still really in love with him. But if he ran off, then you're probably much better off without him. I know it doesn't feel this way to you now, but you will eventually start feeling better and realize you're worth more than he deserved.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2006
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:20am

Yes right now I still love him. I was so not expecting this when he got home. We were trying to have kids. I thought he was happy. We were not perfect but at least happy.


He has started moving his stuff out.