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| Sat, 05-17-2008 - 1:29pm |
I have posted to the message boards a couple of times. A brief synopsis: I am 27 with two beautiful children, son just turned 7 and my 22 month old daughter. Have been separated for 3 months. It gets lonely but I have developed a good social network of friends. The stbx lives about 50 miles away with his parents. He told me this past Sunday that he wants to speed up the divorce process now. We orginally agreed to wait until the house sold and then sign papers. That way the money would be split evenly. Well he doesn't wait. I don't know why...I really don't care right now. He knows that the house would go in my name as I can financially afford to make the payments.
Here is my dillemma. I can financially afford the house and the corresponding bills but I want to get a second job in order to pay off my credit card debt and to build a small savings. I want to work from home but I don't know what I can do. I don't want to put my kids in daycare all day as that is where my daughter is while I am at work. Stbx doesn't want to commute back and forth to watch the kids due to gas prices.
Any advice on what kind of work I can do??? What websites that I can go to.

Merchant,
Hi. My first thought is this: You are under NO OBLIGATION to "speed things up" on the divorce. So don't let him dictate the pace by insisting you take on the whole mortgage alone.
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