needy lately, your feedback helps ALOT

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Registered: 04-27-2008
needy lately, your feedback helps ALOT
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 8:47pm
So, my DS is coming home to get his wisdom teeth out. My STBX said he wanted to go to the appointment when it happened (DS will need to be put right out for the procedure). As of two nights ago, DS was going to cancel his appointment (b/c of costs) but he figured out a way to pay and is going ahead with the procedure and coming to town. When STBX found out about DS cancelling, he offered to pay (last post said that sorry), and was going to phone DS. Don't know if the phone call took place. Question is: Do I let STBX know about the change in plans? (If STBX phoned DS last night like he said he was going to, he would know, but not sure if he actually connected, and STBX hasn't asked any questions in the last 24 hours) I would just feel badly if DS expected his dad to be there (b/c he said he would be there on the weekend), and I didn't give his dad a heads up! Or should I ask my DS if he let his Dad know? So confused about what to do... Input is welcome as usual!!