Funny thing he said...

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Funny thing he said...
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 12:23pm

H picked the kids up today. I had to talk to him about a childcare issue in June for

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Registered: 05-26-2008
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 1:19pm

And?

What is your situation? Are you still married, divorced, separated? How is your relationship with him, and overall with the kids? Do you still have feelings for him? Are either of you involved with others? We need more information to make a real comment

Magic

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Registered: 04-27-2008
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 1:54pm
LOL!!! That's too funny.
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Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:11pm

We're marching towards divorce. He's an alcoholic who has no trouble putting his own needs over that of his children.


And to bottom line it even more--I never camped when we were together. I like the outdoors. I like to garden. But a camper I am not. He's probably tell you that was one of the problems in our marriage. Um, I'd say it's more like the 3 DUIs since 2001 and a whole garbage bag full of other chit ;)

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Registered: 05-26-2008
Mon, 05-26-2008 - 8:30pm

I posted this to another message, but I think you should look into AA, first for yourself and second for your children. I have several friends who are "recovering" and what I have learned is that alcoholism is a disease, and not a choice. His body craves alcohol just like a smoker or drug user. Your children may be more susceptible to becoming alcoholics, you need to learn and watch out for the signs. It sounds like he is bitter, and the "invite" was his way of putting the blame of the marital failure on you.

Magic

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 05-27-2008 - 10:56am
My DH keeps asking me if I want to go on vacation w/ him too.