LOOOOONG WEEKEND
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LOOOOONG WEEKEND
| Tue, 05-27-2008 - 11:37am |
For the past 3 yrs, DH has worked in a store and more often than not he works on Sat.
| Tue, 05-27-2008 - 11:37am |
For the past 3 yrs, DH has worked in a store and more often than not he works on Sat.
Music,
You're an attorney...present him with an invoice for billable hours spent straightening out his credit issues :) That ought to wake him up, right? ;)
I SOOO feel your pain. H and I had a "discussion" tonight about some
I understand--one of the reasons I know that DH and I are way over is money--he is so secretive and suspicious about everything it makes me sick, I have gone back to work just to have something-and he hides the money he makes. We have four kids and I know it will be tough, but he treats me with such disrespect when it comes to money, I am sure he has a stash hidden away somewhere. When are you leaving? Have you decided-I tell you it is not easy but I know I doing the right thing
I am actually waiting for him to leave.
I have been going through the same financial woes with my STBX (he was in the house for a year while we didn't have a relationship...too long for sure... but now he is out of the house). We have been legally separated since January, and I have been paying all the household bills, mortgage, taxes, including his truck insurance and his cell phone. I asked him for the money for the cell phone and insurance and he has paid for three months worth (never offered it tho before I asked). I think that you need for him to get out of the house asap, so you can move on with your life. I know it's hard, and it's tough financially (I scrimp and scrape each month), but it's a lot better emotionally. I still have my rough times (see my last post yesterday), but I'm on my own :)