STBX is a piece of work!

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Registered: 12-19-2001
STBX is a piece of work!
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Sat, 06-07-2008 - 6:40pm

He called our son Thursday and scheduled a Sunday (tomorrow) visitation.

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Registered: 05-23-2008
Sat, 06-07-2008 - 9:43pm

I'm there with you on this one, Buckeye. They're unbelievable, aren't they. 2 weeks ago was the first weekend STBX was having the kids over - well, they each wanted to bring a friend. I'm figuring I have at least 5-6 hours to get some stuff done & maybe relax, even. Well, 2 hours later he tells me they're jumping off the walls & have nothing to do, so he's bringing them home. Well, later I find out, the single dad of my DD's friend invited him to a party, so he dumps my son & his friend off at my house and takes off for this party (they DID bring the girls to the party, so I guess that's something - but they're 12 and really don't need to be "watched").


And today he was supposed to bring

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sat, 06-07-2008 - 9:43pm
Hugs for your son. I can only imagine the disappointment for him :(
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sun, 06-08-2008 - 6:17am
I am SO burned out. This morning, as I woke up with my young children yet again at 6:00 a.m., I was thinking about how I'm ready to tell my AH he needs to find a proper place to live or visitation is OVER at the house. I'm SOOOO tired of being the one that does EVERYTHING and he shows up, sits in his (fromer) chair and has NO responsibility except for a couple of hours in the afternoon. Crap. And I'm tired, grouchy and burned out! ARghhhhh. I hate alcoholisim!
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Registered: 04-27-2008
Sun, 06-08-2008 - 3:46pm
You have to wonder how they can look themselves in the mirror. Thinking of you and your son.