Can't the decision be easy?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2007
Can't the decision be easy?
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Sun, 09-07-2008 - 11:09pm

Good Evening Ladies-

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 12:22am
You know what? You should do what you want to do. Who cares what your friends and family think? This is about YOUR family. My family is all so mad at what my husband is doing to me and my children. (He walked out on me and my four children about a month ago and all of us were shocked and are devastated! Lots of crying daily at my house.) Anyway, my family and friends are upset with him, but honestly if came home and said he knew he made a mistake and he wanted to come home I would let him - with conditions! We are seeing a marriage counselor and I would make sure that continued until things seemed settled. You know what's best for you, not anybody else. I have been married 15 years and I truly hope to be married to my husband the rest of my life, but I can't find anybody who understands that.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 09-08-2008 - 1:03am

Well..... I agree (who cares what anyone else thinks... they don't LIVE with you).... but.... I'd be feeling pretty ticked if I tried, tried and tried and the only motivator was when I filed for divorce (which is basically, in a nutshell, what my situation was).


If he says he's serious, make him do the work to EARN you back.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~