Can't Get Past The Anger

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Registered: 02-01-2004
Can't Get Past The Anger
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 12:20am

So, we are getting divorced. I am the one who asked hime to leave because he was verbally abusive. When he started going after our oldest I decided; if I didn't want this for her I shouldn't live with it. He has done everything possible to continue to minimize me and make me feel like the bad person. I could go on for at least a page over the "odd" things he does, but the bottom line is he is still doing it and winning. It has been 9 months and still no resolution (which he contiually blames on me but I am losing financial ground each round we go).


He has "cherry picked" want he wanted out of the house and everything that he does not want "does not go with his new decor". He has taken things of mine without asking. I am so mad I can hardly stand it!!!!


How do I move on and keep him as the father of our children? I am trying so hard, but feel I am now going down with the ship.


Any advice is greatly appreciated!!!!


-Memphis

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Registered: 06-03-2008
Thu, 09-11-2008 - 10:07am




Ah anger.