Just had a bad confrontation with STBX!!
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Just had a bad confrontation with STBX!!
| Sat, 09-13-2008 - 8:41pm |
So STBX just came to get our DD for an overnight visit. He usually picks her up at 9am but had a game so he said he couldn't pick her up until the afternoon. I told him I'd keep her until 6 so I could take her to a pumpkin farm that was having a fall festival. He showed up at 6:20 and came in the door cussing at me. He wanted to know exactly when we got home. This ticked me off so I told him it was none off his business- I didn't have to check in with him. The whole time he was cussing at me and yelling and I kept telling him not to talk to me like that in front of our daughter. He was saying really derogatory things and I didn't lose my cool. He also told me I couldn't take her to church tomorrow, even though we previously agreed. I'm so sick and fed up with him. I've asked him repeatedly to save discussions regarding custody and the divorce proceedings for our court hearing. I've tried everything in my power to be amicable with him and he still treats me like that in front of our daughter. At this point I don't want any contact with him- can I get a restraining order after what he did? I also will add that we don't have a custody agreement yet. I've really tried to push him to have more time with our DD, but he's "too busy". I take care of her during the week, work full time, and go to school part time. In turn, he's living on his brother's couch, and doesn't even call to tell his daughter goodnight like he told her he would. I'm beyond frustrated! I just want him out of my life completely and if I could have the divorce finalized this instant I would! UHHHHHH!!!!

I'm not sure about a restraining order but you can certainly demand a different way of communication between the two of you.