STBX can't take care of anything

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Registered: 11-28-1999
STBX can't take care of anything
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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 1:23pm
STBX & I took all the money out of our joint acct & opened new ones.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-11-2008
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 1:36pm

Can your bank put a hold on this account as of today by your request so it doesn't affect your credit.

Emom13

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 2:45pm
That's why I want to get the paperwork done ASAP so I don't have to worry about what he does w/ his own bills, etc.
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 8:39pm
Oh Music, are you sure we aren't married to the same man? My STBX was supposed to pay the car insurance bill due last week. The day it was due I reminded him via email. He said he'd take care of it. Today I get a confirmation email from the insurance provider that it had been paid just today.....four days late. So basically I'd been driving around, and driving my children around, with no auto insurance for these days. He's so neglegent, but yet he's so concerned with retaining joint legal custody of the children he never sees or asks about. He can't take care of himself, let alone children IMHO.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:54pm

If only......


probably not any consolation, but I was reminded again today that my EX still hasn't grown up to be a big boy... imagine that!


One day you'll be able to look over and say, "not my probelm any more".... and soak up those moments when you get them.... you never know when a stupid moment will interject itself :-)


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 06-06-2003
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 6:38am
Geez, yesterday must have been a validation day!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:48am

Validation day..... could be!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~