"All About Me" this weekend

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Registered: 03-30-2008
"All About Me" this weekend
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Sat, 09-20-2008 - 7:44am

....well after I get the children dropped off with STBX mid-day today.


He finally came to the table and we crafted the temporary order for visitation, custody, money, the house, and some other stuff (I'm going to post about one in another post). It came together at the final moments, before we would have gone to court on Friday (which he did NOT want to do--he knew the deck was stacked against him with past actions & facts). So that got hammered out, but man--it was an emotional, tough week. I can more than live with the agreement.


So he is taking the kids overnight tonight. I was starting to plan who I'd call to do something tonight, when I finally decided 'no, I'll make it all about me' and try to decompress and just enjoy some silence in my own little home.


So I'm going to get some yummy foods for dinner & snacks, maybe a movie, give myself a pedicure and relax. I'm also getting rid of a large freezer today so tomorrow I might revamp my laundry room since I'll have all kinds of reclaimed/empty space now. These things may sound silly or boring to others, but I think it's just the way I need to spend my first weekend with an agreement (phew! so glad that's done) and well the young children are away.


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Registered: 03-11-2008
Sat, 09-20-2008 - 8:34am

Good for you!!!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 09-20-2008 - 10:09pm
Hope you are having a nice weekend.
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Registered: 08-11-2008
Sun, 09-21-2008 - 6:30am

Doesn't sound like a boring plan at all.

Emom13

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 9:35pm

Sounds like a perfect way to spend you time to me!... and so glad that you got the agreement worked out.


HUGS!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

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