Your story sounds pretty similar to mine. My husband and I were married very young, we have two beautiful kids, a house, great careers. About eight months ago I noticed a change in his behavior. I too went right to the cell phone and found a picture that said "Greg's Carmen" on it. I flipped out! What the hell did that mean, " Greg's Carmen". I confronted him and he swore it was nothing and he was just being stupid with a girl he worked with. Well over the last few months his contact with this girl at work continued and increased. I became the wife who would go over his cell phone bill and question him about every text message I saw. Pretty soon I kept uncovering lie after lie about this girl. I asked him to stop speaking to her, he refused. Eight months later we are now separated. I put up with his disrespect and disregard for our vows for eight months because I was scared.
Hi Erin,
Your story sounds pretty similar to mine. My husband and I were married very young, we have two beautiful kids, a house, great careers. About eight months ago I noticed a change in his behavior. I too went right to the cell phone and found a picture that said "Greg's Carmen" on it. I flipped out! What the hell did that mean, " Greg's Carmen". I confronted him and he swore it was nothing and he was just being stupid with a girl he worked with. Well over the last few months his contact with this girl at work continued and increased. I became the wife who would go over his cell phone bill and question him about every text message I saw. Pretty soon I kept uncovering lie after lie about this girl. I asked him to stop speaking to her, he refused. Eight months later we are now separated. I put up with his disrespect and disregard for our vows for eight months because I was scared.