How to get past bitterness?
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How to get past bitterness?
| Tue, 09-23-2008 - 2:19pm |
Hi ladies-
I feel as though I've suffered a major setback. I was doing so well, excited about my future, doing my best to be amicable with STBX, then we made the mistake of being intimate and he also said some very hurtful things. How do I get past this bitterness and anger? I just want to feel normal and be happy. How do I forgive him and move past the anger. I do not want to spend my life being the bitter ex-wife.
I feel as though I've suffered a major setback. I was doing so well, excited about my future, doing my best to be amicable with STBX, then we made the mistake of being intimate and he also said some very hurtful things. How do I get past this bitterness and anger? I just want to feel normal and be happy. How do I forgive him and move past the anger. I do not want to spend my life being the bitter ex-wife.

Mandi,
Hi. The "blues" will visit you often during divorce. This is a process not a single step or action.
For starters, don't sleep with him again. Ever. Nada. Nyet. No. If you do, you're allowing him to use you.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
I am trying to focus on what is best for our son and myself.