Not doing too well

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Registered: 09-22-2008
Not doing too well
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 9:25pm
I am 29 and getting ready to separate and divorce.
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 12:06pm
I can see how you would be distressed about getting a div, esp. so soon after you got married. Also, it is possible to have some love for someone even though he doesn't treat you well, because if he treats you nicely sometimes, you tend to focus on those times. But if he really didn't treat you well, then there's no point in staying w/ him. It's better for you to get div now, get your life back in order and hopefully you will meet someone else who will treat you nicely all the time. It might not seem like it to you, but 29 is still young and you will have plenty of time to meet someone else & have a family.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 3:47pm
You have plenty of time.
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Registered: 11-11-2007
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 9:59pm

I learned two very important things from my divorce: