Why do I feel Bad & Guilty?
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Why do I feel Bad & Guilty?
| Thu, 09-25-2008 - 9:54pm |
I called my stbx the other day to ask him when he would be removing the rest of his belongings from the garage and shed.

Honestly, I think it's part of the grieving and growth process. And probably part of being a woman & mother too--guilt comes easy to us. You're not catholic too, are you? LOL!
And remember, they've done such a number on our psyches...it was a long marriage and awful relationship for so long...you need time to get over it.
My STBX doesn't "get" it either about getting his stuff out of the house, out of the bedroom drawers, out of the basement. He thinks I'm a storage unit. Stick to your guns, I am...we deserve to be able to move on, without their stuff.
Also, maybe he's gotten wind of your new BF and he's being ornery because he doesn't think/want you to be happy. You know, you need to pine for him eternally--he can move on, you can't.
Hang in there Buckeye!
Hehe,
If he didn't know about my boyfriend
LOL...a nun :)
He really doesn't have much to say, now does he? :)