First Weekend Alone
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| Fri, 09-26-2008 - 9:08pm |
My husband and I just separated. It was so hard I thought he loved me and everything seemed so great this year and then he said he had been thinking about leaving me for some time already. He said he just wasn't in love with me anymore....total shocker. We have a 3 year old daughter whom he loves so much he is a great father and he didn't even hesitate about having me take her. We (daughter and I) moved into my parents home on sunday. He had been acting like evrything was fine but he cried that day since he had to take us there. He told me he wants 9 months to see if things change???? How do you decide on time and what does he mean if things change???
It has been soo hard this week without him for both me and my daughter who doesn't seem to understand whats going on. He called a couple of times this week just to talk small chit chat about his work. Today he picked her up and I asked him if I could atleast have a hug and he said sure so he leans over for me to hug him.... wtf that was such a diss. Then he tells me he will drop our daughter off tomorrow night??? I can't believe he is not interested in keeping her the full weekend. He absolutely loves his daughter and I thought he would be hurting over not having her but I guess he doesn't care.

Do you think there's a possibility of another woman in the picture?
Hi
I am going through the same thing this weekend. Two weeks ago husband announced he wants a divorce, doesn't love me etc. Our relationship was rocky so it did not come as a total surprise, but I really did not want this for myself or the kids which are 12 and 8. We split up
I keep hearing that from all my friends. "Just give him time and space" It is so hard to do, I feel like if I sit back and do nothing and just carry on that he will think that I don't care. My daughter was crying this morning and she told me it was because her heart hurt.... :( that just broke my heart. She asked to talk to her daddy so I called him and gave her the phone. It made her smile and then I got to talk to him. I asked him if it would be ok to call him every now and then or if he felt it would be best not to... he said
"sure you can call me if you need to talk, just none of that lovey dovey stuff because it's not happening right now"