confused

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Registered: 09-29-2008
confused
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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 1:57pm

I have been married for almost 9 years. Had our ups and downs. Three weeks ago husband asked for a divorce. Says he still loves me. He tells me I am a wonderful wife, but he has nothing to give. Doesn't want to work on marriage. Main problems were calling if he was going to be late and putting his family first before friends. I don't understand his actions, he comes home every night, sleeps in our bed but not under the same covers. Will not eat at home but
says he sometimes misses me. I am very hurt because I am on disability and can not work and
I gave up my family's home to move to the west coast for him and now he destroys everything
one minute he will talk to me like nothings wrong, then remind me that he wants divorce.

Even daughters seem to think he is acting weird and can't figure this all out. I still really love him and I am really upset about all of this. I always made homemade dinners, bread, cookies, etc. which he loved. Would tell me what a wonderful wife he had then out of no where I want a divorce. Someone please help me with this.

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Registered: 09-02-2008
In reply to: lorivm
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 1:01am

Sounds like he might be cheating to me.