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| Sat, 10-04-2008 - 11:07am |
Hello. I am in desperate need of some help and encouragement here. I am 29 and have been married for 9.5 months and together for 2 years and 9 months. We have no children. It has overall been a VERY toxic relationship. My problem is that we have separated and come back together a couple of times. And we are both military so even when we are not "separated" he is on a ship and goes out to sea from either a couple of days to a couple of weeks. I realize that even though I miss him like crazy during those times I am actually happier without him. I feel free. I have more fun when he is not around. I get depressed from time to time and wish he was with me but overall Im pretty much happier without him. But why do I still want to make this marriage work??? This man has lied, cheated, hit me, and has the worst credit ever and in financial trouble....and me I am quite the opposite when it comes to finances. We argued yesterday and
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| Sat, 10-04-2008 - 2:35pm |
I think the best thing for you to do is invest some time in indiv. counselling to understand what is going on w/ you--for me, if a guy ever hit me, that would be an immediate deal breaker, but I did put up w/ emotional abuse and just kept giving him more chances for 5 yrs of marriage.
