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Question about kids meeting w/therapist
| Fri, 10-10-2008 - 1:33pm |
I have been separated for approximately 2 months and my 2 girls are primarily with me (father gets them every other weekend) this was determined from a protective order. My H wants our girls to meet with a therapist which I think is a great idea BUT my concern is that he is doing this to get information from them about me that he could possibly use against me. My question is, I have to assume their discussions with the therapist will be discussed with him. If that is the case does anyone think those

Thank you, that makes sense and sorta what I thought. When he gets them he prys them for information. Asks them what they had for dinner, did I leave them alone, etc. My youngest (8yr) is alot more emotional than my 13yr old and he tends to break her down. They seem perfectly content when I have them. I have had discussions with them asking them if they had any questions, the whole its not your fault, things will get better,etc. I just let them be girls when they are with me he interrogates them I think.
Shannon
Licensed professionals have a job... not to be biased and figure out what's best for the children.
Much of what is said will be confidential, and yes, if the therapist feels there is need for an investigation by the department of human services or child protective services, that may follow.... BUT, having cereal for dinner every now and then, or even if you left them alone for a short period of time isn't neglect.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~