Don't know which way to go

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2008
Don't know which way to go
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Tue, 10-14-2008 - 9:08pm

So I have only been seperated from my husband now 3 weeks. I had to move in with my parents and 15 year old brother into their 1 bedroom apartment, me and my daughter had to move in with them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2008
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 6:02am

Remember this....you WILL make it, it just may take time. Everything seems SO overwhelming at first and you're only 3 weeks into this. Your H sounds kinda jerky if you don't mind me saying. I hate to see men who keep their wife/SO dangling. I feel for you.


The best thing you can do is begin to make plans for you and your child. Never mind him for now and his "no expectations." If you save, and work hard, you won't have to be in this situation forever.


And he is the dad--is he paying you child support? You need to talk to him about that. And if he refuses, you need to talk to an attorney. You're owed that much.


GL and hang in there. Stop by and let us know how things are going.