Is he for real? (lol)

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Registered: 07-29-2003
Is he for real? (lol)
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 2:43am

He just called me completely out of the blue to tell me he was leaving for a two week vacation to Thailand (while I sit here unemployed, completely broke and my credit rating quickly diminishing), and....

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 1:37pm
Are you going to get a divorce in the US? I hope so and I hope you can get some money from him. It's nice that his priorities are in order--going on vacation while you have no money. After that, I would not even give him the time of day.
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Registered: 07-29-2003
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 7:31pm

I filed on Monday (yea for me!) and will be sending the papers to him via UPS while he's sunning himself (and Gods know what else) in Thailand.

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Registered: 08-11-2008
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 4:30am

Does your STBX know that the papers are filed in the US, Will he be expecting them and avoid picking up the mail or answering the door?

Emom13

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 12:41pm
That is why in MA, a judge has the power not to approve a divorce agreement (even one both parties have signed) if he thinks it's unfair to one party--so that if one person badly wants to get divorced, the other one can't say, yeah, I'll get divorced, but you have to give up all the money.
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Registered: 07-29-2003
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 1:08pm

Your concern is very sweet and I do appreciate your candor.


He's not expecting the papers.