Update

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Update
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 11:26pm
STBX and I finally reached an agreement, and I'm so relieved. I'll have primary residency, and he'll have her either Saturday, Sunday, Monday nights or Sunday, Monday and Tuesday nights (it'll alternate week to week). We'll have shared holidays, and since he coaches I'll have her when on his days as opposed to her going to a babysitter. Does that make sense? Does it seem logical or fair? We're getting a market analysis of the house, and depending on that we will either sell or he will keep it and pay me half of the equity. We're actually getting along really well, and I'm proud of that. Emotionally, I still feel sad at times but even that is getting better. Looking for a job has certainly helped to keep my mind off things (I've applied for 25 jobs!). My Pastor happened to stop by on Friday because we haven't been to church since STBX left, and he wanted to wish us a happy anniversary (!), after I filled him in on everything we had a really nice talk. I really made me feel better; I've been praying so much and just asking God 'please show me that I'm not alone and that I'm going to be okay', and my Pastor stopping by really made me feel like that was my sign.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: mandi_d_o
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 10:42am

Thanks for the update.... and yes, everything sounds good and makes sense.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~