Why Am I Boy Crazy?

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Registered: 02-01-2004
Why Am I Boy Crazy?
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 6:14pm

What is wrong with me?


Here I am not even quit divorced, 40 yrs old with 2 small children. I am coming out of a verbally abusive realtionship and I actually want to start dating.... Well it is not that I want to start, but I feel like I am boy crazy. This is so wierd, I know I am not ready to actually "date" anyone person, but I like to go out on dates. One part of me is looking for some sort of realtionship and the other part of me is saying no way hold back.


Wierd, not sure what to do with all this commotion!


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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2003
Mon, 10-20-2008 - 7:40pm

:) I think its all part of the process, it will settle down soon. For now, feel free to browse!

Liz

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Registered: 06-06-2003
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 6:48am
It's definitely part of the process.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-21-2008
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 9:58am

Yeap.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 2:06pm
I know how you feel--I have been w/ 2nd DH STBX for 8 yrs (5 of those married) and we have been separated since July. I haven't been on any actual dates, since I hardly ever meet anyone and don't have any interest in on-line dating right now, but it's like you have this sense of having another chance to either find someone better or just have a fling.
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Registered: 02-01-2004
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 11:24pm

Awesome... awesome!


I am glad I am not the only one. Not only do I feel it is very unbecoming of a near 40 year old mother of Two, but that is not someone who I ever thought I was.


Maybe when I write my book this phase will have its very own chapter!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2007
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 6:09am

You are not alone - Human comfort, companionship and oh yeah sex is all something we need want and miss - I read a great book - Congratulations on your divorce - which the author - a divorcee - talks in non psychological ways about what we go through and has real life suggestions - I could see myself in so much of it - read it only two weeks ago and am going to read it again


D day is in just under a month after 22 years of marriage and three years of his infidelity - Can't wait!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2001
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 10:17am

What is wrong with you?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-08-2008
Fri, 10-31-2008 - 8:36pm

OMG - I was so glad to have found this thread!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2005
Sat, 11-01-2008 - 8:14pm

I am in the same boat.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2006
Mon, 11-03-2008 - 12:35am
Have your fling and fun. Preferably with the hottest guy you can find that is younger than your ex. It took me a good year to be in a healthy relationship.

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