sizzling!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 05-30-2007
sizzling!!!!!!!!
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Wed, 10-22-2008 - 6:24am

My STBX has been away for three weeks which has been a huge break - that's not why I am posting - I have been packing up his huge amount of stuff in the basement to have it all in one place - he has taken forever to get this done = and as I packed things I have found things of mine including personal items tucked away- WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT


Called him and blasted him - by the way he after three years of infidelity now wants to reconcile - which is not an option. Told him exactly what I thought. WHat I can't understand is why does he do this and in some items outright lies that he had taken things. At this point why lie to me anymore.

It was amazing that the calm I had attainedin his absence. The anxiety induced chest tightness and lack of concentration all came immediatly back. Told me I am on the right track to limit my contact with him and to pack his stuf up. But he is coming back this weekend and his velcro like attachment will be back in town -


Just needed to vent

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: momdeli
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 10:07pm

velcro like attachment.... LOL.... that described my EX!


So, how are things?????.....


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 05-30-2007
In reply to: momdeli
Wed, 11-05-2008 - 10:54pm

Thanks for asking

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: momdeli
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:04am

Know the feeling... dreading it, even though we know it's the right thing to do.


Thanks for the update!.... hope the next EIGHTEEN days go smoothly; let us know!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~