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| Tue, 10-28-2008 - 11:50am |
So STBX and I met with our respective lawyers yesterday to go over the div. agreement he and I came up with. Everything looks good, and STBX's lawyer is writing up the agreement. We easily agreed on most aspects of the agreement, although there was some real contention when it came to his retirement- told him I refused to budge on that part, and he finally relented. I am relieved in so many ways. Glad that the what if's and uncertainty about what's going to happen are hopefully past me. I reflect back to three months ago when he first left. I was in such a dark place, and never thought we would be at this point. So to all the people just starting this journey, yes, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It hurts like hell at first, but I'm living proof that even that gets better. I'll admit that I still feel sad or nostalgic at times, but I'm looking forward to the future. If I had to impart one piece of wisdom from what I've learned about this process, it's that you heal the way you allow yourself to heal. Anyhow, divorce will likely be finalized around the end of November, but I'll keep you all posted!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
*doing a little happy dance for you*