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Is Anything Ever Right??
| Fri, 10-31-2008 - 10:59pm |
I am new here, but I have been reading around the boards, and have come to think that this may be a decent method of getting some honest discussion.

It sounds like your ex needs some anger management classes also. I think that in order to protect yourself, you need to have as little contact w/ her as possible. Pick up the kids for visits, make most of the communication by email and avoid discussing anything except what has to do w/ the kids. You never know, she might accuse you of abusing her or the kids if she is really off the wall.
I assume that you are looking at her info on MySpace, Facebook or something like that. You are right, it's a public place, so I think that people really shouldn't have expectations of privacy once they post, but it seems that teenagers don't grasp the concept that everything they post could be seen by a lot of people, so maybe she is at that level. I think you should avoid posting any comments to her page, and maybe not even read it. If you are broken up, I don't know why you would be interested in what she is doing anyway. If you have concerns that her current BF is abusive and that your kids might be in danger, you could always report that to the child protection services in your state to investigate and show them the computer info.