I hate my brother's fiance!
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| Sun, 07-04-2004 - 11:14am |
Anyways yesterday he finally got to me too much when he mentioned the work and I said that it was a problem how these companies in the area were hiring more and more contractors that will work OT and then not hire people that can only work a normal week, also not having to pay benefits either to the contractors. It has NOTHING to do with him and no one but him took it personally. Then he got all mean and I explained I wasn't referring to him in particular. And he just got more and mroe mad and finally I told him that I was sick of the way he had been acting lately, that he had changed (I am sure because of the hoe) and he better figure out why and get bakc to himself because I couldn't stand it. I pointed out other things he had done that day that were rude and condescending. I told him to get it together and not call me till he could.
But he won't. I will have to go to him but honestly I can't do it without telling him that I think he is making the most HORRIBLE mistake of his life. This b!tch will be pregnant before you know it if possible. I can tell. Not only that - she is gaining wieght too. Neither of them of taking care of themselves anylonger and my once sweet brother is now a snob who gets ticked at every little thing.
Does anyone have any advice for me. If I tell him he will hate me. I don't want him to be miserable and he IS - why can't he see it?? He will deny it forever too. I personally think that when youare happy you take care of yourself more...don't you think? I just want miss fake to hit the road.
OH - and this was rich - she tells me at dinner yesterday that she had a dream that Jack and I were over and I was telling her "Don't you get it b!tch - my brother had been trying to dump you for months" and she said in her dream she DECKED ME!
#1 - Why would you tell me that!??????
#2 - Ya think chick? Hmmmmm
UGH
Laura
PS - i told her she must be a very insecure person LMAO~

((((((Laura))))))
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Anyways, I don't have to deal with her anymore, to which I am thankful.
Alison
I personally find actions like this a sign of major immaturity (I recall being like that at about ummm 15 LOL)
But you know I made my mistakes too - however that makes me an expert ;)
(yah sure lmao!)
L
My advice is: This is your brother's fiance. You can't change that. You can't make her different. You can either accept that he is in love with her and will probably marry her (pregnant or not) and be as much of a sister as you can be. Or, you can alienate yourself.
The ball is 100% in your court to respond appropriately.
(this is coming from someone who has been there/done that with siblings who make bad choices)
I have been in your situation and it's best to just be thankful people can't read minds and say nothing.