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This is ridiculous!
| Thu, 07-08-2004 - 3:48am |
This guy doesn't get the message. How much more negative do I have to be towards him than I already have been. Now it comes down to just ignoring him but I am seriously worried he's going to show up at my work again. He is talking about commiting suicide because he can't live without me, that he wants more chances, he doesn't care if I don't feel the same for me, as long as I stay with him! What is up with that? The guys screw is loose. That's it ladies! I am completely throwing in the towel of online dating after 2 years. This has been a nightmare, really a one after another nightmare.
Now I have to stress about this guy leaving me alone, not stalking me and/or him hurting himself to get my attention. ARGH! It's so frustrating. I tried to be honest, brutally honest, because I just couldn't explain it nicely to him anymore. It wasn't working and now I am in this situation.
I refuse to date for awhile after all of this! It is taking a toll on me. Serious depression starting to sink in here!
Now I have to stress about this guy leaving me alone, not stalking me and/or him hurting himself to get my attention. ARGH! It's so frustrating. I tried to be honest, brutally honest, because I just couldn't explain it nicely to him anymore. It wasn't working and now I am in this situation.
I refuse to date for awhile after all of this! It is taking a toll on me. Serious depression starting to sink in here!

Ugh!
(((((Catherine)))))
I don't think I got to respond yesterday to your thread that you'd broken things off. I am sorry you are in this place again. It's terrible no matter how good the reason.
Tara is right. You CANNOT allow him to manipulate you. He is very unstable from the sounds of it, and the best possible thing for you to do is cut all communication. You cannot help him and all he can do at this point is hurt you.
Hang in there. Taking a break isn't a bad thing. Everyone needs time to regroup. You know, they always say when you aren't looking, that's when you meet "Mr. Right" and I've seen that hold true time and time again (myself an excellent example)
I've been in the situation a while now, that I just don't want a relationship. I didn't think Dating this guy a couple of times would end up getting me into this predicament. I let myself get pulled into having a relationship, even though I was perfectly happy having learned too FINALLY be alone without a man in my life. It took awhile to realize that after my divorce and the scariness of being alone adn sick with cancer, but since I have been well again, I am so happy now, just having time with my children, my friends, or just a great book. I never used to be able to count on one hand the greatness of singlehood, now I can make a list with both and reach 10.
((((Catherine))))
Well, I am glad you got away from him.
Kim