He doesnt want more kids.
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He doesnt want more kids.
| Mon, 07-12-2004 - 9:36am |
I have been with my boyfriend alittle over a year. He has two children to a previous marriage. I have a little boy. I have alway wanted a little girl and possibly a big family. He had a vasectomy. A couple month ago we talked about htis and he told me he would get it reversed. The other night he tol dme he has been doing a lot of thinking, and he doesnt want anymore children. He talkd about getting married but I dont know if i can because all i have ever wanted was a big family. He is everything to me and everything that I would want out of a relationship besides the kids thing, any advice

I don't know what you consider a large family, but putting three kids through college seems like a daunting task to me.
This is a tough decision to make, good luck on it.
I think that you have to respect and accept that he has thoughtfully considered it, but knows he doesn't want more kids.
Another thought for you about his vasectomy.....even if he really wanted more kids and got the reversal, there's a chance it wouldn't work.
Hi and welcome!