cl-tcranky1 - Reply from Mary Beth

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cl-tcranky1 - Reply from Mary Beth
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 3:47pm
Hi T,

thanks for the welcome.

And yes I am attracted to him, have always been.

I think at this point in my life it would be a mistake to rush into anything.

I need to get myself together and pay attention to my kids.

I do hope he will wait for me.

He is a carpenter by trade and I told him I was having doors installed by Home Depot

and I could tell he was a little disappointed I diddn't ask him. But I asked him if

he could come over and watch them do it "so it's done right" and he seemed to like the invitation. He also offered to take my oldest son fishing the first week of August for a day. My SBX always was promising my son he would take him. He's really nice to my kids, and acts real interested in what my nine year old tells him about Yu Gi Oh and all his little nine year old things. I can tell my son really likes it. I know, be careful, he may be trying to get to me through my kids. Well heck, be nice to my kids, bring me flowers, I could be doing worse. I could be getting ignored by my ex and making excuses to my son why his Dad is passed out again and not taking him fishing right?

Man, he is nice to look at too.He's 6 feet 4 , 250 solid, and his smile makes me melt, especially his eyes. He has a way of making a grown women blush easily just with a smile.

My goodness, I'm blushing now. LOL

I know be strong. He He.

Mary Beth
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Tue, 07-27-2004 - 7:30pm
LOL

Well, hopefully he can wait while you get things sorted out. Sounds like a good guy. Just take it slow, wait for the divorce to be final and hang out with him on a friend level.

But checking out a hottie is always good LOL

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 07-28-2004 - 11:35am

Hey Mary Beth!


He sounds quite handsome.


I think you are right to take it slow and let him remain a friend for now.

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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 1:24pm
Thanks for your advice,

I will try not to let my kids grow used to having "Uncle Dan" around.

I understand, and they come first in my book always.

If something were to happen between Dan and I and then not be a long term

thing it would effect them greatly, and losing another male role model in their lives can't a good thing.

I can't look for a replacement Daddy for them.

Mary Beth