So...what would you do???
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So...what would you do???
| Wed, 08-04-2004 - 5:11pm |
I have been seeing a guy I met online for a few months now.
| Wed, 08-04-2004 - 5:11pm |
I have been seeing a guy I met online for a few months now.
Do you feel you can be honest with him? I would. I would simply say, my friend, insert name, mentioned to me that she's seen your profile on a couple of other dating sites.Are you planning to take those profiles down now that we’re exclusively dating?
You don’t have to mention that you’ve been watching his activity for the last few weeks. (And no that doesn’t make you a stalker! LOL)
Give him the benefit of the doubt, a chance to explain. Then if you don’t like his explanation, make your decision.
Btw, I met my SO on yahoo personals almost 2 years ago. And I still get weekly emails from them on my “latest matches” even though I am not paying as an active member. I sometimes click out of curiosity to see who’s on there and it is somewhat amusing to see some guys that I dated (that were total players) that are still on there from over 2 years ago!
;-)
Hugs, Marilyn
CL-Entrepreneurial Women
Business Impressions, LLC
I wouldn't be too confrontational.
I agree that you should not be confrontational on this.
Assuming you did NOT talk about ads, then I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. I'd just say something like, "hey I realized that I neglected to talk with you about taking our profiles down when we agreed to be exclusive the other night. That's something that's an important part of exclusivity for me. How do you feel about that?" If he agrees to take his ads down but doesn't (or if you did talk about taking ads down), THEN I'd dump him.
Sheri