I want a new guy, but have no time .
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I want a new guy, but have no time .
| Thu, 08-05-2004 - 4:20pm |
Hi everybody,
I'm separated and already want a new guy, but how?
I barely have time to get anything done as it is.
Since my marriage broke up I have had to handle everything between the three kids, the bills, the pets, yard work, house maintenance ,full time job, food shopping, cleaning, football practice, family stuff, I'm exhausted everyday. Where would I fit time in for a new guy ? Under all this is a women who needs love, (sigh)
MB
I'm separated and already want a new guy, but how?
I barely have time to get anything done as it is.
Since my marriage broke up I have had to handle everything between the three kids, the bills, the pets, yard work, house maintenance ,full time job, food shopping, cleaning, football practice, family stuff, I'm exhausted everyday. Where would I fit time in for a new guy ? Under all this is a women who needs love, (sigh)
MB

Hi MB, welcome!
I feel the same way as a single dad. . . no time to date or even to meet someone like you to date. . . and I am sure when you do have a moment you just want to rest.
My question is where to meet other women to ask out?
mark
It seems to me, from my experience and from reading that of others here, that as time goes by and you heal from the divorce you will find more energy. You will relish being alone and you will find yourself.
Every day will get you there and then when you are ready you will meet someone. The longer you wait the better you get and the better your prince will become.
Hugs to you and your children.
Thanks,
MB
I think it helps to develop other hobbies and interests and to keep expanding the circle of people that you meet. This is easier to do when you are single versus married.
You definitely need some friends to help you through this. The trouble is that most married friends treat you like you have leprosy when you get divorced so they have to go by the wayside and you have to find new ones, at least from my experience. I was lucky to meet many friends who are single and divorced and I have a pretty good circle now.
"You definitely need some friends to help you through this. The trouble is that most married friends treat you like you have leprosy when you get divorced so they have to go by the wayside and you have to find new ones, at least from my experience. I was lucky to meet many friends who are single and divorced and I have a pretty good circle now."
That is exactly what happened to me after my divorce, too....the leprosy thing.