What would you do? Needed for tonite
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| Fri, 08-06-2004 - 12:50pm |
Also, I had told him earlier in the week that we could get together one night this weekend if he wanted, but I was okay with it if we didn't see each other. I have my son this weekend. If I saw my boyfriend, it would just be for the evening. My son would spend the night at my mom's house (which he loves to do).
I kind of got the urge to see him tonight and I left him a voicemail today saying that I might come over tonight, but I need to see how I feel after work. Here's my question....should I invite myself over like that or is it bad form? I wonder because if he had wanted to see me, then you'd think he would have just asked me out. But, you throw in the fact that I have a child and I think he wants it to be my decision to get together so I don't throw it up in his face that he's pressuring me to leave my son at my mom's. I know if I did see him that he would enjoy my company and be affectionate, but part of my brain is telling me...don't invite yourself over.

Well, I am not a big "rule follower" so I would think that at 6 months, you should be just fine to "invite yourself" or see if he's around. I don't see any reason why that would be a problem.
Hope you have a great time. How often do you see your son? Will this cut too much into your time with him, or do you have it all balanced out pretty well? Not a fun juggling act, I know. ;)
Your letter sounds like he has been on good behavior so it sounds good to me.
Well it's too late now for me to answer, so I'll just ask, what happened?
I still sometimes have my doubts about him. I have a hard time wondering how many of doubts are justified. I don't think you can have a failed a marriage / very nasty divorce and look at dating the same way again. I keep wondering if and when he'll turn into a creep.