He wants to come see me :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
He wants to come see me :(
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Thu, 08-12-2004 - 5:37pm
Do they still make lockable undies LOL. What he doesn't get is all this makes me want to dump him 100%. That is fine though - guess it won't hurt so much then. Who knows maybe he isn't "confused" anymore. And pigs are flying out of my butt.....

Laura

PS - I am TIRED :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Thu, 08-12-2004 - 5:42pm
I guess I don't understand why you didn't ask "are you ready to introduce me as your girlfriend to your parents?"

And if he said yes say "ok." And if he said no, say "NO."

You continue to allow this drama to occur. I would stop it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-25-2004
Thu, 08-12-2004 - 6:42pm
The answer is he can see you if you meet his mum and get a green light for commitment. Otherwise you are off limits to his eyeballs.

Be firm. Be strong.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2004
Fri, 08-13-2004 - 2:36pm
Laura:

You've done so well, dont cave now. Stay strong. Good luck.

Donna

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Registered: 05-25-2004
Fri, 08-13-2004 - 4:03pm
I agree with Donna. Chances are you are feeling a little better today- do you really want to start the grief process all over again?