Tried calling(wrong section,sry,not fun)
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Tried calling(wrong section,sry,not fun)
| Mon, 08-16-2004 - 11:33pm |
My gf's dad stayed with her last weekend and Sunday they traveled a short distance to go to a baptism. She sent me a txt message Sunday morning saying she'd call me when she got home. I haven't talked to her since Thursday night. I knew she wouldn't call over the weekend when her dad was there, but expected her to call Sunday night. I tried calling her at home and her cell just now, but got no answer, so I left a message on her answering machine and sent a txt message wanting to make sure she made it home ok. I'm somewhat concerend about whether she made it home, but also want to see what's up. I don't know why she wouldn't call me because its not like her, so it would almost worry me if she doesn't call me tomorrow after getting my messages. Just to make sure everything is ok, I wanna call her sister just to make sure all is well with her if I don't hear from her. That's not out of line, is it? Sure I want to find out if she is just not calling me, but I also need to make sure she is ok.

Edited 8/17/2004 4:15 pm ET ET by jaysonw
The main thing is, is she happy to talk to you when you do get a hold of her?
If she calls you tonight, let her know that you understand how extremely busy she is, and that you won't be calling her for awhile so that she can have some space. And that she can call you when she's got some room to breathe.
If she values your relationship and wants it to continue, she will call you when she's ready to talk to you.
If she doesn't and you keep calling her, you will quickly become a nuisance and she will distance herself from you even more.
Nobody wants to be a nuisance...but sometimes the best of intentions can be perceived that way.
good luck to you!