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| Mon, 12-06-2004 - 2:15pm |
I have to ask now...am I the only caucasian woman on the bb that prefers men of color/ethnicity?
| Mon, 12-06-2004 - 2:15pm |
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I don't know Candi. I know I have always gravitated towards caucasian men but I've dated Hispanic men and men of mixed ethnicity. It's never really been an issue. Do you not find caucasian men attractive? What ethnic background does Trav have? Just curious.
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Tara
I haven't been truly attracted to a white male ever as far as I can remember. I was always WITH a white male because that's what was around, period. I was crazy about a young black man that I met at camp once in jr. high. I still wonder what happened to him. It's just been since my divorce that I've figured this out and now I realize why I didn't have that "zingy" feeling before. Not that I never enjoyed sex, once into it I had fun. But the attraction, the "WOW, LOOK AT THAT!" wasn't there before.
Trav is African american/polynesian. OMIGOD! Two in one, how could I resist?
Of course I'm not attracted to ALL men of ethnicity. Very thin ones don't do much for me, and guys from India usually don't either. See, no good explanation that I know of. There's a pattern, but still random in a way.
*shrug*
Haha...remember Kevin the wannabe lawyer? That I had such a hard time making myself date? I remember thinking this about him but probably never said it out loud..."he's so...white..." I could not make myself be attracted to him even though he was extremely attracted to me.
I guess I never gave it any thought personally.
Kim
Hey do you have her kid in class? Just tell her "kid gets an A if I can run my hands up your hubby's shirt a few times". Where's the harm in that?
;)
I've dated Spanish men, black men, Italian man, Irish man, let's see...can't think of any other nationality. I am attracted to all sorts of men. But, the man that really gets me going ;) are the tall white men. I don't know, my ex-h was a dark hispanic man, short at that. I'm now completely turned off to hispanic men that are short. Actually, any short man. Now I like men that are tall, Viking look, strong looking, have big hands (oh, I love big hands). Also, an absolute must have - come packin ;)
Marilyn
CL-Entrepreneurial Women
Business Impressions, LLC
I've dated: Japanese/English, Hispanic, Irish, Italien, Mexican/Italien, Muslim, but I have never dated an African American, because I just never found one attractive enough, UNTIL the other day. Their is this guy that works here as a consultant and he's just awesome looking. I was drooling. Then he opened his mouth and I almost fainted. He had this gorgeous British English accent. Something about British, Australian, Irish, Scottish Accents makes my heart pitter patter quicker. ;-)
But he's married! So the only real taboo for me is.....Married men, not the race!
I am pretty positive that I wouldn't date a black man, because to be honest, I am just not attracted to men with dark skin, except for the guy I saw, but I'll never say never. I also don't like to date blondes, because I find them unattractive, but I did make an exception with the 21 year old a few months back, because I have never seen such a gorgeous man (inside and out), as he was. Which come to think of it, is probably the reason I haven't dated anymore, he left a lasting impression that I haven't shook off yet, nor do I want to. He kept saying that I was the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, that he loves me and that I should never settle. He made me believe in myself again, so I think that is why I hold him dear and I am taking his advice. It was very sad to see him go back to the states. I do miss the way he made me laugh, but I had to break it off. Not just because of the age, but the situation. Anyway, here I go rambeling again and off the topic. LOL. I only wanted to say, that I have preferences that I find attractive or I don't and I usually stick to it.
- Catherine
P.S.: I've never had a relationship with a guy, other than one, who wasn't Caucasion, but all my booty calls have all been from a different race. It just happened to be that way, it wasn't planned. Also, all my booty calls are with guy buddies, not total strangers, but guys I have been friends with for months or years prior. It make it more fun and a lot less stress, because we talk, joke and laugh alot in the process. Typical me. I can't shut up. LOL
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